A New Book Says Married Women Are Miserable. Don’t Believe It.

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From Vox:

Last week, a shocking claim about happiness made the rounds in the press, from the Guardian to Cosmopolitan to Elle to Fox.

The claim?

Women should be wary of marriage — because while married women say they’re happy, they’re lying. According to behavioral scientist Paul Dolan, promoting his recently released book Happy Every After, they’ll be much happier if they steer clear of marriage and children entirely.

“Married people are happier than other population subgroups, but only when their spouse is in the room when they’re asked how happy they are. When the spouse is not present: ******** miserable,” Dolan said, citing the American Time Use Survey, a national survey available from the Bureau of Labor Statistics and used for academic research on how Americans live their lives.

The problem? That finding is the result of a grievous misunderstanding on Dolan’s part of how the American Time Use Survey works. The people conducting the survey didn’t ask married people how happy they were, shoo their spouses out of the room, and then ask again. Dolan had misinterpreted one of the categories in the survey, “spouse absent,” which refers to married people whose partner is no longer living in their household, as meaning the spouse stepped out of the room.

Oops.

The error was caught by Gray Kimbrough, an economist at American University’s School of Public Affairs, who uses the survey data — and realized that Dolan must have gotten it wrong. “I’ve done a lot with time-use data,” Kimbrough told me. “It’s a phone survey.” The survey didn’t even ask if a respondent’s spouse was in the room.

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Dolan confirmed to me by email, “We did indeed misinterpret the variable. Some surveys do code whether people are present for the interview but in this instance it refers to present in the household. I have contacted the Guardian who have amended the piece and my editor so that we can make the requisite changes to the book. The substance of my argument that marriage is generally better for men than for women remains.”

Kimbrough disputes that, too, arguing that Dolan’s other claims also “fall apart with a cursory look at the evidence,” as he told me.

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This is only the most recent example of a visible trend — books by prestigious and well-regarded researchers go to print with glaring errors, which are only discovered when an expert in the field, or someone on Twitter, gets a glance at them.

In May, author Naomi Wolf learned of a serious mistake in a live, on-air interview about her forthcoming book Outrages: Sex, Censorship and the Criminalization of Love. In the book, she argues that men were routinely executed for sodomy in Britain during the 1800s. But as the interviewer pointed out, it appears she had misunderstood the phrase “death recorded” in English legal documents — she thought it meant a person had been executed, when it actually meant the death penalty had been deferred for their whole natural life. That meant that the executions she said occurred never actually happened.

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Earlier this year, former New York Times editor Jill Abramson’s book Merchants of Truth was discovered to contain passages copied from other authors, and alleged to be full of simple factual errors as well. And around the same time, I noticed that a statistic in the New York Times Magazine and in Clive Thompson’s upcoming book Coders was drawn from a study that doesn’t seem to really exist.

People trust books. When they read books by experts, they often assume that they’re as serious, and as carefully verified, as scientific papers — or at least that there’s some vetting in place. But often, that faith is misplaced. There are no good mechanisms to make sure books are accurate, and that’s a problem.

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[B]ooks are not subject to peer review, and in the typical case not even subject to fact-checking by the publishers — often they put responsibility for fact-checking on the authors, who may vary in how thoroughly they conduct such fact-checks and in whether they have the expertise to notice errors in interpreting studies, like Wolf’s or Dolan’s.

The second, Kimbrough told me, is that in many respects we got lucky in the Dolan case. Dolan was using publicly available data, which meant that when Kimbrough doubted his claims, he could look up the original data himself and check Dolan’s work. “It’s good this work was done using public data,” Kimbrough told me, “so I’m able to go pull the data and look into it and see, ‘Oh, this is clearly wrong.’”

Many researchers don’t do that. They instead cite their own data, and decline to release it so they don’t get scooped by other researchers. “With proprietary data sets that I couldn’t just go look at, I wouldn’t have been able to look and see that this was clearly wrong,” Kimbrough told me.

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Academic culture is already changing to try to address that second problem. In response to the embarrassing retractions and failed replications associated with the replication crisis,more researchers are publishing their data and encouraging their colleagues to publish their data. Social science journals now often require authors to submit their data.

Book-publishing culture similarly needs to change to address that first problem. Books often go to print with less fact-checking than an average Vox article.

Link to the rest at Vox

PG suspects that all of this may be because proofreading and fact-checking don’t help out a publisher’s bottom line.

Besides, it’s usually the author who is embarrassed. The publisher is often treated as an innocent victim instead of a facilitating distributor of untruths.

And “facts” that further the narrative are sometimes too good to be checked.

Or, perhaps, publishers are filled with stupid people who don’t understand anything about what they’re publishing, about the same as the factory drudge who turns on the printing press in the morning.

And here’s the book, still on sale at Amazon. Proudly brought to you by Penguin Random House UK, part of the largest trade publisher in the world.

8 thoughts on “A New Book Says Married Women Are Miserable. Don’t Believe It.”

  1. “PG suspects that all of this may be because proofreading and fact-checking don’t help out a publisher’s bottom line.”

    The linked article said nothing about proofreading. In the real world, publishers do in fact hire copy editors for that.

    • Good point, Richard, although I have seen errors in traditionally-published books that a good proofreader would have caught.

      I should have limited my comment to fact-checking.

    • I do wonder whether some of the budget formerly put into general vetting is now sucked up by more expensive (per hour) vetting for potential slander suits…

      In any case, I think that books with errors, sometimes egregious ones, is not necessarily a new phenomenon. “Have Space Suit, Will Travel” (published 1958) had a scene where the protagonist is shocked when his father takes a pen, crosses out part of his school text book, and writes in the correct information. I’ve done this with several text books over the years myself, the majority of which were not even “matters of opinion.”

      The clearest in my mind was a worked problem on angular momentum in my college physics textbook. The authors had set up the problem correctly – and then calculated the wrong answer. (Fool me, I brought that up in class, to a professor that treated the book like Holy Writ. He was going to “show me up” by doing it on the board, and thoroughly embarrassed himself in front of the entire class. Needless to say, I did not have an easy time for the rest of the semester…)

  2. … in many respects we got lucky in the Dolan case. Dolan was using publicly available data, which meant that when Kimbrough doubted his claims, he could look up the original data himself and check Dolan’s work.

    Yeah … but it seems to me that common sense could have done just as well to help him debunk Dolan’s claims. I suspect Dolan saw what he wanted to see, or was projecting. Maybe he wanted to convince his girlfriend that they should see other people, but was too cowardly to ask.

    Naomi Wolf was just arrogant about her ignorance, as a character in a Peter Straub novel once said. Wolf should have been on the lookout for: 1) Differences in British vs. American English, 2) Differences in 21st century vs. 19th century English, 3) Differences in the meaning of words used in legal contexts vs. colloquial contexts.

    What’s worse, Wolf’s book was apparently a thesis from Oxford University. One wonders what that school is coming to. Elite institutions — Harvard, Yale, and now Oxford — appear to be turning into cheap knock-offs of themselves. Very sad.

    • Jamie, thank you for sending me down a somewhat macabre rabbit hole trying to find details of historical English executions. Google was not as helpful as I hoped but took me to an interesting if a little repellent website http://www.capitalpunishmentuk.org/contents.html
      which appeared to hold all the data needed for Naomi Wolf to have done her research properly. I fear that your criticisms of my old university are not unfounded.

      • And assuming that Wolf was looking at the Old Bailey online record for the case she was so angry about a simple click would have shown the following: “Found guilty. Sentenced to death. Sentence outcome was imprisoned.” and that he was let out after a couple of years. Not a good example of historical investigation!

        For what it’s worth there were 48 executions for sodomy in the period 1800 to 1836 after which they ceased. Not a happy picture but also not at all what Wolf was suggesting: a faction within feminism may however be pleased to hear that 124 men were executed for rape in that period (and what PETA’s views are on the 10 executions for bestiality I cannot guess).

        • The even worse part was that the “death recorded” men she was upset about weren’t even instances of consensual adult relationships. The men were preying on little boys; you’d think her maternal instincts would have put her on the side of the children (I know she has at least one child). I’m surprised rape was a death penalty offense, in light of the men getting slaps on the wrists for attacking boys. Maybe the law considered it less offensive, for some reason, to harm children back in those days?

          I don’t even want to guess PETA’s stance would be on bestiality. PETA people can be … weird 🙂

  3. This is why my preferred genre is Science Fiction with some fantasy a close second – at least I know that it’s made up.

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