When you have to move: the trauma of downsizing one’s personal library

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From IPKat:

Moving can be among life’s most trying family events. This is especially so when moving means downsizing. This Kat recently endured this trauma, after 35 years living in the same apartment with Mrs. Kat and the (once small, now grown) family Kittens. IP was not spared. Perhaps the most difficult aspect of the move was dealing with his book collection.

While the digital world is threatening the future of the personal library, this Kat would like to believe that the personal library will survive. And, as long as it does, the library owner will face the challenge of dealing with the stark reality that while copyright may protect book contents at the incorporeal level, books only have personal meaning in their three-dimensional, physical context. But books take up space, which may, or may not, be readily available to accommodate the book lover and his collection when the time comes to move. What is one to do?

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First, why do personal libraries seem to expand even more than one’s middle-age waistline. It is not merely that they are a storage repository for books that have already been read. It is also more than the physical embodiment of one’s reading aspirations. Something deeper is going on. This has been explained by the author Nassim Nicholas Taleb (think “The Black Swan: the Impact of the Highly Improbable“), writing about the Italian novelist, Umberto Eco. Taleb observes:

The writer Umberto Eco belongs to that small class of scholars who are encyclopedic, insightful, and nondull. He is the owner of a large personal library (containing thirty thousand books), and separates visitors into two categories: those who react with “Wow! Signore professore dottore Eco, what a library you have! How many of these books have you read?” and the others — a very small minority — who get the point that a private library is not an ego-boosting appendage but a research tool. Read books are far less valuable than unread ones.

The library should contain as much of what you do not know as your financial means, mortgage rates, and the currently tight real-estate market allows you to put there. You will accumulate more knowledge and more books as you grow older, and the growing number of unread books on the shelves will look at you menacingly. Indeed, the more you know, the larger the rows of unread books. Let us call this collection of unread books an antilibrary.

In other words, a personal library trends to expand because the ultimate aspiration of the library owner is to assemble an antilibrary. Let us assume that this Kat’s book collection has some (at least a scintilla of) characteristics of the antlibrary (which we still call a “library”, so readers have a more ready linguistic anchor). For Mrs. Kat, Eco’s waxing romantic about books may do wonders for one’s emotional well-being, but it does little to address the question necessitated by the move: what are we going to do with all those books (especially when most of them are in English, and this Kat lives in a non-English speaking country where they read from right to left)? Hence the order—”Downsize!”

There are several aspects to formulating a plan to downsize. First, one must determine when categories of books, if any, can be ruled out in wholesale fashion (where to dispose of them is a separate issue, as we describe below). For all other books, the guiding principle then becomes: the category is relevant, but all members of the category may not be treated equally. I.e., how to cull these books?

First, what about those books that have been read (which means, given this Kat’s reading habits, that there is copious underlining and other markings)? The answer is—”it depends”. Depending on how severe the downsizing will be, it is not sufficient to conclude that this Kat may wish to consult the book again in the future. The future is without end, but shelf space is limited. Tough choices are required.

As for fiction, one is tempted to conclude that it is usually easy to obtain another copy of a work of fiction, should this Kat wish to reread it. But not always. This Kat rereads “The Catcher in the Rye” every 5-10 years. That means his multiple copies, each with its own marking and notations, will remain; so too will all the novels of Jane Austen. When you know that you will for certain reread a book, a copy of that book will remain, even it could be easily acquired later if needed.

What about unread books, those which feature so prominently in Eco’s notion of the antilibrary? Three questions must be answered: First, how much do I want the mere presence of unread books to menace me, Eco-style? Second, how serious am I when I conclude to myself that I plan to read the book in the future (the “whom are you kidding” test)? Third, even if I am not really deceiving myself, are there enough reasonable hours in the days, weeks, months, and years ahead to make it actuarily reasonable that said book will indeed be read?

All of this means that a subset of all the books in this Kat’s library will survive the culling process. But what does one do with the books that have failed to meet the test? This is perhaps the most painful part of the process, because it means that these books must be disposed of. As a young reader, the first commandment of this bibliophile was that “thou shall not throw away any book”. For sure, libraries may do so, but that was part of the carrying out of their public service function (they too had to contend with too many books, too little space). Au contraire, when one’s (modest) private book collection is concerned.

Link to the rest at IPKat and thanks to C. for the tip.

For those who are of a certain age, let your heirs worry about it.

8 thoughts on “When you have to move: the trauma of downsizing one’s personal library”

  1. I am living in the 38th address that I have history for (all those college dorms aren’t a part of that list) and am about to move to the 39th. Every time I’ve moved, I’ve taken a lot of books with me. Even though each move has been preceded by a painful culling of the collection, family members have complained bitterly about the number of boxes. Since I was given my first Kindle, I’ve read nearly exclusively on that device and I have a hefty collection of e-books, but I still also have a pretty sizeable collection of paper books as well – although many (most?) of the books I reread have been obtained as e-books and the paper version have been given away. Well, a sizeable collection when considering packing and moving, that is. I’ve done my best to cut the number of boxes. My husband says more work is needed…

  2. I moved lots of stuff to Saudi Arabia a number of years back. The company paid, so I had little restraint. Ten years later, the same company paid to move me back to the US. When all the stuff was unloaded back in the US, fourteen of the boxes of books I had carefully packed ten years earlier showed no sign of having been opened. Unopened for ten years. Goodwill got those fourteen boxes.

    When digital arrived a bit later, almost all the paper made the same journey to Goodwill. Econ, finance, and accounting books were spared, but they are worthless for showcasing a nuanced appreciation of our shared literary legacy. All replaced by a few Kindles and iPads sitting around.

    • I’ve probably managed more than that in several purges as we moved – plus a couple even after we “settled” into the current house.

      Now I’m working on the survivors, foot by foot (literally), to convert them to ebook – where all I’ll have to take is the SSD.

      I still think I’ll be lucky to end up with less than 100 linear feet. Too many books that just aren’t available as electrons (my CRC Handbooks, local interest histories, etc.) and my precious few first editions and signed copies.

      Ah, well, I’m being nicer to my heirs than my parents were – we packed an 18-foot UHaul, front to back and top to bottom, with just boxes of books.

  3. An entire SUV full. $48, and I think they discarded most of them.

    I really don’t miss them at all. What was I thinking?

  4. For those who are of a certain age, let your heirs worry about it.

    But what if you’re balding and have few or no hairs?

    Oh. That’s different. Never mind. (Thereby proving that I am, indeed, of a certain age.)

  5. No heirs. No problem, I guess. Maybe I should just neglect to mention where they’re stored, for the huge sub-surface mass of the ones not in my dwelling… Somebody must need landfill somewhere…

  6. I’m currently trying to downsize. I think I’ve given away 7 books, out of several thousand from a 40+ year period of collecting.

    The advice to “let your heirs worry about it” sounds better and better.

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